Bonding with Daddy

Moms do you know that bonding with children can support child development? Closeness or attachment between children and parents is one of the factors to achieve maximum development. Several studies have shown that children who have a good bonding with their parents usually grow into smart children. Therefore it is very important for us to build attachment.

For Mother, Love is a facility for bonding, but what about Dad? I did a number of things to build bonding between my child and his father, following these activities:
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1. Praise your husband
Giving praise to your husband has a big impact on the parenting process. Praise the things that have been done then invite the husband to participate in educating children. If the husband feels happy, then he will be happy to help Moms to participate in parenting. Because the role of fathers is very important for children.

2. Hug and kiss the child in the morning
Every morning I wake up my child will look for me but at that time my husband immediately showed his face when my child woke up. He will kiss my child and say good morning. This he did every morning until now. The effect is when my child wakes up without me by his side, he stays calm / doesn't cry.

3. Take 1-2 hours for the child
Daddy who is tired of working would want to rest right away. But give 1-2 hours each day for children. Make good communication, which is to present yourself as a whole father to interact with him. Make eye contact and respond to the things raised by the child. Do not play cellphone first when communicating with children. He will feel valued if the father made eye contact with the child.

4. Don't hesitate to carry him
Many fathers feel awkward carrying their children, with stiff excuses, fear of falling, etc. Nevertheless try that the father holding the child. By holding the child (especially babies) will get to know you through your heartbeat and body odor. If done repeatedly, he will feel safe and comfortable in the arms of his father.

5. Praise your child
Children really like to be praised. But for father, praise is sometimes difficult. Try to give praise to your child, saying "good job" or "great" can make him happy and the child will try to find father's attention to get it.
6. Help the wife do simple tasks for the child
You can also help the mother to take care of the child. Simple things like accompanying a child to play or just replace clothes can be done. The involvement of fathers in parenting directly can make children have a good relationship with fathers.
Well, here are some activities that we usually do every day. Good bonding really makes every phase of development can be achieved to the maximum. Hopefully this can be applied, mom and dad.